Friday, February 6, 2015


I created this blog to have a place to ramble about things that happen throughout my day, the ups and downs about being a working mom, and just to express my opinion.  We all have our own opinions. Your opinion may not be the same as mine, I respect that.

I am a full-time working mom of two year old boy/girl twins.  Yes, twins run in my family.   No, my twins are not identical, you would be amazed at how often this question is asked!  I really want to respond with, "boys have a penis and girls have a vagina", a la Kindergarten Cop, but I usually just say no.  I also get asked, so you are done, one and done?  Why do people expect that once you have a boy and a girl, you don't want anymore children?  My husband would say yes we are done! However, for me to say I am done, means I will never be pregnant again, never give birth again, never hold my newborn baby.  I enjoyed my pregnancy.  I loved to feel the moving and the kicking.  I can say I miss being pregnant.  I miss holding a tiny infant in my arms and hearing their coos.  The excitement of the first time they rollover or crawl, hold their bottle for the first time.  I know there are some of you thinking that I am CRAZY, that you don't miss the feeding every three hours, the poopy diapers, breastfeeding/pumping.  But all the exciting milestones out weigh those.

I have no plans to have another child, however, sometimes we don't plan for everything.  People change, plans change.  Sometimes there are stronger forces out there that have different plans for us. I just want to keep my options open even if it turns out that I will answer the question, yes, I am done.

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